Indeed fantastic are the words contained in this simple but very
helpful write-up, with the gravity of its importance when read I guess
you as well need it.  So happy reading and don’t forget to drop your
thought in the comment box provided below. Now, let the reading and
lesson commence!

1-Listen actively. When your husband expresses an opinion or a
thought, pay attention. This shows you respect him and his views and
nothing pleases a man more.

2-Dress pleasantly/attractively. Mostly women dress properly when
going outside and at home they wear worst clothes...You should dress
yourself so that your husband will feel good when he looks at you…

3-Smell good. I mean use perfume with good fragrance. It creates attention.

4-Say thank you with a smile. When your husband does an odd job around
the house, thank him like you really mean it. He will know that his
help is not taken for granted and he will be happy to do more. In
short, be GRATEFUL!

5-Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him.
Smile and hug.

6-Prepare his favourite meal. After he returns home from work on an
ordinary day, surprise your husband with his favourite dinner. He will
not only be glad to have the food he likes best, but will appreciate
the time and effort you put in preparing it.

7-Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks
in. Give him a little mental break.

8-Don’t keep asking him, “what are you thinking?”… because unlike
women, men’s thoughts are as random as the results of a Google search.

9-Give your husband a nice massage, after a particularly exhausting day at work.

10- Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your
husband to be kind to your own mother. Treat his siblings as your
siblings and his father as your father. Then, you would see how much
he will respect you.

11-Learn all the rights and obligations of each other in your
RELIGION. If you're a Muslim,learn and apply the rules and ways of
taking care of your spouse and home. And, if you're a Christian, also
do same to have a better home.

12-Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.

13-Compliment him on the things you know he’s not so confident about
(looks, intelligence) etc. This will build his self-esteem.

14-Tell him he’s the best husband ever.

15-Call his relatives for a lunch or dinner at your home.

16-Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he
does it. This will encourage him to do more.

17-When he’s talking about something boring, listen and nod your head.
Even ask questions to make it seem like you’re interested.

18-Stop nagging non-stop before your Creator gives you something
really to complain about.

19-Help him to find and build his inner strengths and skills.

20-Encourage him to do good deeds.

21-Share religious knowledge with each other. Try to watch religious
channels(pertaining to your faith) together so that you both can

22- If he’s in a bad mood, give him some space. He’ll get over, God's willing.

23-Thank him sincerely for providing you with everything.

24- If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out
while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster.
Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how
you want him to change something.

25-When you’re mad at him, don’t say “YOU make me furious”, rather,
“This action makes me upset”. Direct your anger to the action and
circumstance rather than at him.

26-Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.

27-Let him chill with his friends without guilt, especially if they’re
good guys. Encourage him to go out, so he doesn’t feel “cooped up” at

28-If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can
control it), then stop doing it. Really.

29-Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess
all the time. Learn to communicate your feelings.

30-Don’t get mad over small things. It’s not worth it.

31-Make jokes. If you’re not naturally funny, go on the internet and
read some jokes, and then tell them to him.

32-Tell him you’re the best wife ever and compliment yourself on
certain things you know you’re good at.

33-Learn to make his favorite dish.

34-Don’t ever, EVER talk bad about him with your friends or family

Only if it's read that  you can understand, implement and make it a
daily thing to do... Dropping your comment in the below box will be of
an immense help. Thanks for reading.

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      1. Lol

        but you sabi se e no easy! This encourages me,just wish having such a lady with such qualities as my spouse. That’s my thought and prayer. Pray God makes it so.

    1. Just like bolabas said; keep it till marriage, explain to your wife and change her as. well as your sisters and daughter. Teach everyone.

      Are you a lady?…..No offence pls!

    1. Sure….you guys are to delete the “your message” that’ll firstly be displayed in the comment box. I deleted it before typing.

      so,with that you have your true message or comment posted.

  1. I wish I could get on touch with the admin/writer of this article. Though a bachelor but helps a lot when graduated into being a full man.

  2. This is 70% meant for the ladies. I wish I could have a sister. She deserves reading this nice piece of writing. Thumbs up!

  3. My focus is on line 30. Getting mad at your spouse. It makes a senseless interpretation.

    Ile iya re lo ma pada lo straight.

    Nice one jawe Oga essayist.

    1. @ Mr Khan…..are you an Indian?

      No harm….just ma favourite Bollywood actors’ name; Sharukh khan,Amir khan,Salmon khan and khans.
      Love it

  4. In case you don’t have idea of any comedian that could make you laugh or make your spouse laugh or smile, watch Mr Ben together either you buy it or he does.

    Thanks. @line 31

      1. It means not what you thought man!

        But for your info, when a damsel is seen

        .when she’s seen, men would know which I believe I’m one! Enviable!

  5. Anyhow! People of understanding are here.
    Don’t under rate their comprehensibility standard.

    More so, do proof read your articles/comments before being posted. It’s irreversible!

    1. Sure guy! I knew proof reading would be the best idea for a better and pleasing write-up. Any form of write-ups, do re-read or proof read.

      God knows!

    1. Sure….you guys are to delete the “your message” that’ll firstly be displayed in the comment box. I deleted it before typing.

      so,with that you have your true message or comment posted. I was initially confused upon seeing was later I discovered this.

  6. You/we all look in to this from similar view!

    This could also be done by the guys as well..

    The serious guy could for these… and I love such a guy!

  7. Sure….you guys are to delete the “your message” that’ll firstly be displayed in the comment box. I deleted it before typing.

    so,with that you have your true message or comment posted.

    No offence please. Just copied Mr Bolabas ‘ work so as to get you informed. Though it’s meaningless share.

  8. Assune you were told to choose the best line of the write-up that truthfully suit or that you acknowledge…..mine would be *all

  9. Assume you were told to choose the best line of the write-up that truthfully suit or that you acknowledge…..mine would be *all

  10. Your message.. It seems there isn’t any good guy in! Any heart breaker here?

  11. Who am I on ur list?
    Send to all contacts & see how
    many reply you get starting with
    1) The one dat makes me happy
    whenever I feel sad.
    2) The one I wish I was dating.
    3) The one dat broke my heart
    without even knowing it.
    4) Chief broadcaster of rubbish.
    5) The one I have a crush on.
    6) The one with the most
    annoying dp’s and updates.
    7) The one I wish I knew more.
    8) The one I love.
    9) The funny one.
    10) The one I fantasize about.
    11) The one I should have
    deleted a long time ago but just
    12) The one who never replies
    nor says hi.
    13) The one whose dp’s and
    updates I look forward to see.
    14) The one I haven’t even met
    yet feel as though I have.
    15) The one who ‘ll never catch
    mу attention .
    16) The one whose trouble I
    look for all d time.
    17) The drunk cos you’r always
    posing with bottles of liquor.
    18) The glutton cos its only
    plates of food уσυ use as your
    19) The one dat claims to be
    �what he/she is not.
    20) Don’t even know were to
    place you.
    21) The one who ‘ll always end a
    chat with “brb”.
    22) The one who ‘ll always say hi
    den disappears.
    23) The one who never rests.
    24) The one I love but can not
    25) The One with big stuff I can’t
    26) The one I want dead
    27) The one I wish 2 Marry
    28) The Trouble maker
    29) The Annoying One
    30) The one am deleting soon

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