Indeed fantastic are the words contained in this simple but very helpful write-up, with the gravity of its importance when read I guess you as well need it. So happy reading and don’t forget to drop your thought in the comment box provided below. Now, let the reading and lesson commence! 1-Listen actively. When your husband expresses an opinion or a thought, pay attention. This shows you respect him and his views and nothing pleases a man more. 2-Dress pleasantly/attractively. Mostly women dress properly when going outside and at home they wear worst clothes...You should dress yourself so that your husband will feel good when he looks at you… 3-Smell good. I mean use perfume with good fragrance. It creates attention. 4-Say thank you with a smile. When your husband does an odd job around the house, thank him like you really mean it. He will know that his help is not taken for granted and he will be happy to do more. In short, be GRATEFUL! 5-Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him. Smile and hug. 6-Prepare his favourite meal. After he returns home from work on an ordinary day, surprise your husband with his favourite dinner. He will not only be glad to have the food he likes best, but will appreciate the time and effort you put in preparing it. 7-Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break. 8-Don’t keep asking him, “what are you thinking?”… because unlike women, men’s thoughts are as random as the results of a Google search. 9-Give your husband a nice massage, after a particularly exhausting day at work. 10- Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother. Treat his siblings as your siblings and his father as your father. Then, you would see how much he will respect you. 11-Learn all the rights and obligations of each other in your RELIGION. If you're a Muslim,learn and apply the rules and ways of taking care of your spouse and home. And, if you're a Christian, also do same to have a better home. 12-Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it. 13-Compliment him on the things you know he’s not so confident about (looks, intelligence) etc. This will build his self-esteem. 14-Tell him he’s the best husband ever. 15-Call his relatives for a lunch or dinner at your home. 16-Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him to do more. 17-When he’s talking about something boring, listen and nod your head. Even ask questions to make it seem like you’re interested. 18-Stop nagging non-stop before your Creator gives you something really to complain about. 19-Help him to find and build his inner strengths and skills. 20-Encourage him to do good deeds. 21-Share religious knowledge with each other. Try to watch religious channels(pertaining to your faith) together so that you both can learn. 22- If he’s in a bad mood, give him some space. He’ll get over, God's willing. 23-Thank him sincerely for providing you with everything. 24- If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something. 25-When you’re mad at him, don’t say “YOU make me furious”, rather, “This action makes me upset”. Direct your anger to the action and circumstance rather than at him. 26-Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration. 27-Let him chill with his friends without guilt, especially if they’re good guys. Encourage him to go out, so he doesn’t feel “cooped up” at home. 28-If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it. Really. 29-Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all the time. Learn to communicate your feelings. 30-Don’t get mad over small things. It’s not worth it. 31-Make jokes. If you’re not naturally funny, go on the internet and read some jokes, and then tell them to him. 32-Tell him you’re the best wife ever and compliment yourself on certain things you know you’re good at. 33-Learn to make his favorite dish. 34-Don’t ever, EVER talk bad about him with your friends or family unnecessarily. Only if it's read that you can understand, implement and make it a daily thing to do... Dropping your comment in the below box will be of an immense help. Thanks for reading. [sg_popup id=1]
Originally posted 2015-11-03 16:55:38.