Boyfriend Versus Hubby Series:
I remember on the day of my wedding,a young man was in the car with me, I shared the testimony of how my wife saw a greater tomorrow even when there was nothing on the outside.He then said;sir
you are lucky! Most women will not marry you if you don’t have money.They are not surulere ladies but olorunshogo time of women.I immediately reacted,No!When I met her she never even believed in marriage because all the marriages she has seen was a failure.I was even engaged to someone else but just picked interest in mentoring her.Today there are several ladies God has used me to help from all kinds of addictions and past traumers. There were things I did that convinced her.Her life and future is safe with me even if it’s a face me and face you house I was taking her to.These are qualities of hubby that boyfriends don’t have;
1)Boyfriend will date you but Hubby will propose to you.
I have seen all this trial and error relationships everywhere and am speechless.If you want to buy a brand new car from BMW,will they allow you to go home and test it for months or years before returning to pay?If a guy cannot invest months to be your friend and when he ask you out he propose directly and not dating you.Dating is like a test drive and since you are not a Tokunbo lady,you are tear robber,he should tell you when he wants to marry you even if it’s 7years latter it’s still good than open ended dating with the guy not knowing when he wants to marry you.He’s just test running.The foundation for every relationship is friendship.The friendship phase is like the dating phase.After that is come and propose bottomline.May you no longer be a test and dump lady in Jesus name.A man with enough cash leave the dealer’s shop with his brand new car.A real man that want to marry you will go straight to the point.
2)Hubby’s see your potential while boyfriend’s see your present physical endowments.
I have met ladies that I doubt will ever marry,suddenly you see a great man who invest in them and a great woman suddenly show up.Pst Bimbo Odukoya of blessed memory always paint this very well of how she frustrated Pst Taiwo first 3years of marriage but the man invested in her and today even after her death,her ministry is still speaking.
3)Hubby Sow& Boyfriend take:
Most so called lovely relationships are parasitic.A man with good husband qualities will sow into your development.While dating my wife,If I buy two books for myself,I buy one for her monthly.I look for relevant conference and encourage her to attend so that she can develop.I had started some of this before we even dated.Learn to sow positive seed as a man into ladies generally as women are mothers of nations.Your seed after you will eat from those seeds sown. But if a man can’t sow principally into your spiritual and mental development,he’s a parasite,let him go.
Enjoy your day!